I offer coaching services focused on accountability mapping and skill-building for individuals who recognize they have caused harm and are eager to make amends.
It's common for those who have caused harm to initially deny that any harm occurred and to resist the need for accountability and amends. This denial can be painful to experience and challenging to navigate, but change is possible!
For tools and strategies to encourage someone to take accountability, check out the Creative Interventions Toolkit: A Practical Guide to Stop Interpersonal Violence. Often, the most effective individuals in this role are those who have existing relationships or connections with the person who harmed, as they can leverage those ties. As an outside consultant and coach, I may not be the ideal fit for this crucial role.
Shift old patterns. Open new possibilities. Align with what matters.